Love

With Valentine's Day fast approaching I thought I would talk a little bit about something that has been on my mind.  Love.

Does love exist?  Is it real?  Is there a one person for you?

My views on love are going to be kind of corny.  But, I believe there are soul mates for everyone out there.  The trick is for you to be their soul mate as well. 

Let me try to explain that a little bit better...

I believe there are a few loves that you will have in your life.  And you will be loved a few times in your life.  The trick is to have your love, also be somebody that loves you.  Your soul twin.

See I think we are given certain clues when we are born as to who this person is... but, we are not given everything.  Just some clues.  To make us take a deeper look at the people we are with.

To some people it's a certain characteristic... Like for me it's the way somebody smiles at me.  It melts my heart.

Some are given a certain race or gender but not much else.  Some they just have to trust there feelings.

I have made some mistakes in my past.  Rushing in on love.  I am in no rush now.  I want to find the right person.  To find her I need to work on me.  Work on my inner self.  I have been doing this for awhile now... so, when I'm ready to tell some woman that I love her... I will mean it, and be a good enough man to spend the rest of my life trying to make her happy. 

I have a vision of the person I want to be for the love of my life... every day I am working on getting closer to being that vision.  That person.

I just hope people are patient in waiting for me to know if what I feel is real and true... I owe it to her, to know it before I say it.  Not fake it until I feel it. 

Comments

[Anastasia]

I've only had one love in my life. That was my husband who I met when I was 18. Now, I'm almost 52 and he is almost 60 but we still celebrate Valentine's Day! Am I lucky? Maybe so. But love is earnt, it's never given for granted. Love requires commitment and often some sacrifices.

[Soapafterdark.blogspot.com]

Seriously, I'm so proud of you! You've got an awesome grip on things, and you put it so much more smoothly than I'd ever be able to. You've come a long way, Mr. Man!!